Hey guys! Sorry it's been so long! School started and life has been really busy. But guess what? I'm finally a senior!! I've officially started the countdown to my graduation. There are 250 days until I am considered a college student. Isn't that exciting? As you can imagine, I'm absolutely flooded with things to do. I've scheduled tours to my top schools, been starting on essays, starting applications, and searching for scholarships. I think I've written more essays in the past month than I have my whole life! Some of the classes I am taking this year are challenging as well: AP Calculus BC and AP Music Theory to name a few. In addition to all that, I have started working on my scholarship auditions for college music programs. It's a lot of challenging music and my first deadline is looming just over the horizon. The stickler: I'm doing all this while still participating in marching band as the Drum Major, as a member of tweleve clubs, attending martial arts classes, and maintaining a part-time job.
All of this work and pressure is really getting to me sometimes. It is overwhelming and results in an occasional panic attack or mental breakdown. It isn't easy to do everything at once, especially when you're a perfectionist and intrinsically motivated like me. I want to excel at everything, I don't allow myself to slack off, and under NO circumstances is a B acceptable. The only problem is that I'm completely stressed out 24/7. I get stress migraines (on top of genetic ones which really sucks), a short temper and patience, occasional panic attacks, and never. ending. worrying. and. stressing. Honestly, it's awful and I hate it. It's so hard to manage myself and control my emotions and get enough sleep. This, of course, only makes it worse. Unfortunately, school and college are necessary evils to reach my optimal potential.
To combat this helpless feeling of crushing stress, I do several things:
1.) I binge eat my favorite snacks. I know I shouldn't, but sometimes eating a whole chocolate bar or a big bowl of ice cream with peanut butter melted on top just makes the pain go away. Let's face it: your favorite junk food always makes the sun shine a little brighter and makes everything seem more manageable.
2.) Aromatherapy baths. MMMMMM YESSSS!! Or bath bombs. And bubbles. There is something about sitting in a rainbow, good smelling, warm bath and being engulfed in mountains of bubbles. Something so juvenile and child-like about it that just makes you forget for a little while. Especially when you are listening to soft classical music while taking a nap, reading a good book, or singing along to your favorite songs. I seriously recommend this one.
3.) Going to the gym. Probably my least favorite because I don't like pain lol. But this is my go to if I'm angry.
4.) Another one of my favorites, but probably the most expensive, is driving. I like to drive on back roads with my music playing loudly and all the windows opened. Very satisfying.
There are several ways to distress, but these are some of my favorites. Have a great day! Happy Fall, y'all! XD
Kisses,
Isabelle ;)
P.S. Please check out the poll! :)
Sunday, September 18, 2016
Friday, July 15, 2016
Guest Post
Hey guys! Guest post is up! Check out The Strange Musician blog to see it! :) Click here!
Kisses,
Isabelle
Kisses,
Isabelle
Tuesday, June 28, 2016
Life as a Book Character
As I am lounging here in my hammock in the middle of the woods devouring books, I can't help but wonder what it would be like to be one of the characters in my stories. In many ways, it seems impossible. All the female characters in teen fiction books are alluring, beautiful with and without makeup on, guarded, irresistible, mysterious, and the guy always falls helplessly in love with her. The girl is never mean, never cruel, and everything always works out for her. Every time I read a book depicting such a utopia, I find myself wishing I could be like her. While she has problems, in the end it all works out. She gets the perfect guy, she gets into her dream college, she gets a clean resolution. All loose ends tied into a neat little bow.
In contrast, real life pales in comparison. You don't always get the perfect guy. You don't always get into your dream college. Everything doesn't always work out. So what would it be like to live in a world that everything did? I've spent countless summer days reading about these powerful females and trying to learn from them, emulate them and their personalities so my life could be just as picturesque as theirs. I want their carefree adventures, their true love, and their happy endings. Unsurprisingly, pretending to be someone you aren't doesn't do much good for you. All I managed to do was confuse and hurt myself when it didn't work out like the storylines. But that doesn't stop my imagination from longing for such perfection. What it be like to be a character in a book? Sometimes I wish I was one.
Kisses,
Isabelle 🤔ðŸ’
P.S Stay tuned for a guest post coming up in the next few days! I will be guest posting on The Strange Musician. Hope everyone will check it out!
In contrast, real life pales in comparison. You don't always get the perfect guy. You don't always get into your dream college. Everything doesn't always work out. So what would it be like to live in a world that everything did? I've spent countless summer days reading about these powerful females and trying to learn from them, emulate them and their personalities so my life could be just as picturesque as theirs. I want their carefree adventures, their true love, and their happy endings. Unsurprisingly, pretending to be someone you aren't doesn't do much good for you. All I managed to do was confuse and hurt myself when it didn't work out like the storylines. But that doesn't stop my imagination from longing for such perfection. What it be like to be a character in a book? Sometimes I wish I was one.
Kisses,
Isabelle 🤔ðŸ’
P.S Stay tuned for a guest post coming up in the next few days! I will be guest posting on The Strange Musician. Hope everyone will check it out!
Friday, June 3, 2016
Stereotypes
Ya know what really rattles my cage? Stereotypes. I despise how people generalize according to outward appearances. "She is a blonde so she must be stupid." "He has glasses so he must be a nerd." "She wears a lot of makeup so she must be a hooker." Small minded comments like this really steam my clams. Even worse are the ones that involve race. "He is black so he must be a criminal." Or "She is middle eastern so she must be a terrorist." Especially gender ones, even ones as little as "Females are good cooks." Or "Males are all strong."
No. Not everyone is what you think they are. It runs so much deeper than that. People are complex and unique and can not be molded into one specific category. Stereotypes are for ignorant and small minded people who have nothing better to do than judge others.
So please don't stereotype. Don't conform and don't judge others. Just let them be them and just be you.
Kisses,
Isabelle
No. Not everyone is what you think they are. It runs so much deeper than that. People are complex and unique and can not be molded into one specific category. Stereotypes are for ignorant and small minded people who have nothing better to do than judge others.
So please don't stereotype. Don't conform and don't judge others. Just let them be them and just be you.
Kisses,
Isabelle
Sunday, May 29, 2016
How to Bounce Back from Disappointment
I am a drum major of my school's marching band. It has been my dream since I was a freshman. At the end of my sophomore year, I tried out to be the drum major. I was astonished to find out that I made it, along with two of my other friends! This past season was the first time our school has ever had three drum majors. The position was everything I dreamed it would be and more! I absolutely fell in love with it and tried my hardest every day. It changed my perspective on life-- so much so that I wanted to be drum major in college and become a band director. I felt like I was good at it and I had a firey passion for music, band, and my peers' success. I decided to try out again at the end of this year. I was overjoyed to discover that I made it again. I was so proud to have accomplished my dream once again. There was no better way for me personally to finish high school: living, eating, and breathing my dream. My senior year was supposed to my year; the year that I can shine; the year that I would not let anyone take advantage of me; the year that I could be head/competition drum major. This idea was euphoric and I wanted it so bad. It was within reach; I could see my fingertips grazing on the surface.
Until it wasn't. Sometimes dreams don't work out the way you want them to. What I worked so hard for and craved so intensely, I didn't receive. One of my other drum major colleagues got it instead of me. I was not going to be the head and my dreams were not going to come true. I found out the morning after. I was completely crushed. It was the biggest let down of my life thus far. Anyone who has had something like this happen to them knows the sorrow and regret that accompanies having the most important and substantial aspirations, goals, and dreams crumble into dust. For a couple days, it is like you have been swallowed by a black hole of despair. The next stage I experienced was disbelief and numbness. Accompanying that was attributing blame. I distinctly remember laying in my bed and asking God why. Asking Him what I did to deserve this. I thought back to every little mistake I made throughout the previous season, then to my whole high school career. I analyzed every single action, word, and attitude. I examined my confidence levels and my outward appearance, anything that could make me insuperior to the one who got it instead of me. Next was anger. I didn't lash out, but I let the anger consume me, rumbling deep within my chest. I took it out on myself. Eventually, I talked to my band director, asking him what I could do better so I could be drum major in college. I was hurt when he said "Keep doing what you're doing." But what I'm doing now isn't good enough; I didn't get it. I'm still working on rebuilding my confidence and pride, and my ego is bruised. The decision hasn't gone public yet-- only the head, his close friends and family, me, and my close friends and family know. I'm still working on me.
However, in order to successfully bounce back from disappointment, you have to feel all the feels (that's such a weird sentence! Lol). The five stages of grief are: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. There is no set time that should be spent in each stage-- it all depends on the individual. The denial stage is characterized by disbelief. In this phase, it is common to question yourself, those around you, and God. Next is anger. In the anger phase, the tendency is to attribute blame. Remember not to be too hard on yourself, but also don't push your friends away or inaccurately blame others for your misfortune. In the bargaining phase, it is common to offer trades or make promises. "If I can only have this, I will trade this" or "I promise I won't do this anymore if I can just have this back." Unfortunately, God works on His plan on His own time, so chances are if you lost it, God has a plan for you and your future. After the bargaining phase is the depression phase. Once it becomes clear that the event really happened and that it won't be reversed, sadness ensues. This is typically the longest phase, especially with losses of friends, family, or pets. When in this stage, remember that it will get better and that it is not your fault. The last phase is acceptance. With acceptance comes closure and you can finally move on.
The most important thing is to go at your own pace! Rushing through the process or wallowing in a certain stage could inhibit or negatively affect your healing. On the bright side, with every little letdown, you're building your resilience. You'll get through this! Good luck and feel better my lovelies!
Kisses,
Isabelle 😘❤️
Until it wasn't. Sometimes dreams don't work out the way you want them to. What I worked so hard for and craved so intensely, I didn't receive. One of my other drum major colleagues got it instead of me. I was not going to be the head and my dreams were not going to come true. I found out the morning after. I was completely crushed. It was the biggest let down of my life thus far. Anyone who has had something like this happen to them knows the sorrow and regret that accompanies having the most important and substantial aspirations, goals, and dreams crumble into dust. For a couple days, it is like you have been swallowed by a black hole of despair. The next stage I experienced was disbelief and numbness. Accompanying that was attributing blame. I distinctly remember laying in my bed and asking God why. Asking Him what I did to deserve this. I thought back to every little mistake I made throughout the previous season, then to my whole high school career. I analyzed every single action, word, and attitude. I examined my confidence levels and my outward appearance, anything that could make me insuperior to the one who got it instead of me. Next was anger. I didn't lash out, but I let the anger consume me, rumbling deep within my chest. I took it out on myself. Eventually, I talked to my band director, asking him what I could do better so I could be drum major in college. I was hurt when he said "Keep doing what you're doing." But what I'm doing now isn't good enough; I didn't get it. I'm still working on rebuilding my confidence and pride, and my ego is bruised. The decision hasn't gone public yet-- only the head, his close friends and family, me, and my close friends and family know. I'm still working on me.
However, in order to successfully bounce back from disappointment, you have to feel all the feels (that's such a weird sentence! Lol). The five stages of grief are: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. There is no set time that should be spent in each stage-- it all depends on the individual. The denial stage is characterized by disbelief. In this phase, it is common to question yourself, those around you, and God. Next is anger. In the anger phase, the tendency is to attribute blame. Remember not to be too hard on yourself, but also don't push your friends away or inaccurately blame others for your misfortune. In the bargaining phase, it is common to offer trades or make promises. "If I can only have this, I will trade this" or "I promise I won't do this anymore if I can just have this back." Unfortunately, God works on His plan on His own time, so chances are if you lost it, God has a plan for you and your future. After the bargaining phase is the depression phase. Once it becomes clear that the event really happened and that it won't be reversed, sadness ensues. This is typically the longest phase, especially with losses of friends, family, or pets. When in this stage, remember that it will get better and that it is not your fault. The last phase is acceptance. With acceptance comes closure and you can finally move on.
The most important thing is to go at your own pace! Rushing through the process or wallowing in a certain stage could inhibit or negatively affect your healing. On the bright side, with every little letdown, you're building your resilience. You'll get through this! Good luck and feel better my lovelies!
Kisses,
Isabelle 😘❤️
Wednesday, May 11, 2016
Love
Picture this: a young couple, approximately fourteen, holding hands. All of a sudden, the boy turns abruptly to the girl, looks into her eyes and proclaims his feelings. He says it. The three words and eight letters that hold so much meaning and emotion. That make any relationship real, legit, serious. "I love you."
If you are like the majority of modern society, the first thought that pops in your head is "They're too young" or "They don't understand what they're saying." Society's first instinct is to shame, chastise, and criticize. We live in a world that is very opinionated and bold, especially about others. We assume prematurely and are quick to judge others while turning a blind eye to our own flaws. We are hypocrites. Personally, I am tired of it. I am fed up, and it all starts with society's perception of love.
First of all, why do we allow others to influence our relationship choices? I watch as so many of my friends dissect the pros and cons of dating someone. While thinking through the decision is important and sometimes friends can see what you fail to, letting your friends decide who you can and cannot date will only end in fights, resentment, and heartbreak. It is just a bad idea in general.
Next, we perceive love as one simple thing, but it is not. That is a common misconception. Love is so many things, yet one thing; it is so complex, yet fundamental. Love is such a broad topic and it simply cannot be molded or forced into one general, universal definition. With that being said, love is so different. It is unique to everyone. No one loves the same way. What is love to me may not be love to you. In addition, love is different at different stages in life. Right now at 16, my idea of love is drastically different from what it will be when I am 25. I cannot stress this enough: love is not just one thing. It is so complex and circumstantial that it just can't be forced into a concise, accurate definition.
The fourteen year old couple mentioned above could very well be in love. But that is not for us to decide. Love is unique to the individual and should not be collectively defined. In fact, we should just mind our own business. Who cares if they're in love? Who cares if they aren't? It's their life and their relationship. Not ours.
Kisses,
Isabelle :)
P.S. Sorry for not posting recently! It's a crazy time of year as school is coming to a close, but finally all of my standardized testing is over. In fact, I took my last AP Exam this morning! So I should be more present now. Again, sorry! Have a great day!
P.P.S Please check out the new poll and vote.
If you are like the majority of modern society, the first thought that pops in your head is "They're too young" or "They don't understand what they're saying." Society's first instinct is to shame, chastise, and criticize. We live in a world that is very opinionated and bold, especially about others. We assume prematurely and are quick to judge others while turning a blind eye to our own flaws. We are hypocrites. Personally, I am tired of it. I am fed up, and it all starts with society's perception of love.
First of all, why do we allow others to influence our relationship choices? I watch as so many of my friends dissect the pros and cons of dating someone. While thinking through the decision is important and sometimes friends can see what you fail to, letting your friends decide who you can and cannot date will only end in fights, resentment, and heartbreak. It is just a bad idea in general.
Next, we perceive love as one simple thing, but it is not. That is a common misconception. Love is so many things, yet one thing; it is so complex, yet fundamental. Love is such a broad topic and it simply cannot be molded or forced into one general, universal definition. With that being said, love is so different. It is unique to everyone. No one loves the same way. What is love to me may not be love to you. In addition, love is different at different stages in life. Right now at 16, my idea of love is drastically different from what it will be when I am 25. I cannot stress this enough: love is not just one thing. It is so complex and circumstantial that it just can't be forced into a concise, accurate definition.
The fourteen year old couple mentioned above could very well be in love. But that is not for us to decide. Love is unique to the individual and should not be collectively defined. In fact, we should just mind our own business. Who cares if they're in love? Who cares if they aren't? It's their life and their relationship. Not ours.
Kisses,
Isabelle :)
P.S. Sorry for not posting recently! It's a crazy time of year as school is coming to a close, but finally all of my standardized testing is over. In fact, I took my last AP Exam this morning! So I should be more present now. Again, sorry! Have a great day!
P.P.S Please check out the new poll and vote.
Sunday, April 3, 2016
Prom
Prom. Every little girl's fairytale: big Princess dresses, pretty makeup, heels, a date, and lots and lots of pictures! The epitome of youth, a major landmark you'll remember the rest of your life. Prom has a reputation of being a magical evening, one to look forward to and remember forever.
Personally, I've been looking forward to my first Prom for 16 years. When I was little, I would dream about how beautiful I'd look in my long ball gown, how elegantly I would dance, and how dashing my date would look. Prom was the reason I was looking forward to being a teenager.
I say all this because my first Prom was April 2nd. It was everything I hoped it would be and more! But it also wasn't. It was actually really stressful. I wanted everything to be perfect and so I obsessed over every detail. I planned everything from appointments to ride arrangements to dinner reservations. Everything was going swimmingly until my hair appointment went an hour over which caused me to be an hour late to pictures-- oops! (Lesson learned: get an earlier appointment next time.) On the other end of the spectrum, Prom was one of the best nights of my life. I will remember it forever! After the hair fiasco, everything went smoothly. I had a great time with my date and I even got to witness two good friends be named Prom Prince and Princess!
Living in a fairytale doesn't always happen. Dreams don't always come true. But that night, mine did. Never stop dreaming, never stop believing. It just might come true!
Kisses,
Isabelle <3
P.S. Share your Prom experience(s) below! :)
Personally, I've been looking forward to my first Prom for 16 years. When I was little, I would dream about how beautiful I'd look in my long ball gown, how elegantly I would dance, and how dashing my date would look. Prom was the reason I was looking forward to being a teenager.
I say all this because my first Prom was April 2nd. It was everything I hoped it would be and more! But it also wasn't. It was actually really stressful. I wanted everything to be perfect and so I obsessed over every detail. I planned everything from appointments to ride arrangements to dinner reservations. Everything was going swimmingly until my hair appointment went an hour over which caused me to be an hour late to pictures-- oops! (Lesson learned: get an earlier appointment next time.) On the other end of the spectrum, Prom was one of the best nights of my life. I will remember it forever! After the hair fiasco, everything went smoothly. I had a great time with my date and I even got to witness two good friends be named Prom Prince and Princess!
Living in a fairytale doesn't always happen. Dreams don't always come true. But that night, mine did. Never stop dreaming, never stop believing. It just might come true!
Kisses,
Isabelle <3
P.S. Share your Prom experience(s) below! :)
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
When You Feel Alone
The feeling of loneliness is a very common feeling in today's day and age. Something as little as a status on Facebook, a picture of a cute couple on Instagram, none of your friends responding to your texts, or a Promposal in the school hallway can overwhelm you with loneliness. When the feeling hits, sometimes it's hard to focus on anything else. You get a hole in your chest, can't breathe, and hurt from the inside out.
When you feel alone, it's common to want to do one of two things: wallow in your self-deprecating thoughts, or make yourself feel better. Remember: it is okay to cry and sometimes it will make you feel better. :)
When I wallow, I like to do it comfortably. I change into the fluffiest pair of socks I own and put on my favorite pair of pajamas. Then, I either wrap myself in a blanket burrito style or I turn on my bed heater and lay under the covers. I will just lay there and let my mind wander for a while. I think about everything. I remember someone I miss, imagine what-ifs, and wish I was out doing something productive. If that doesn't work, I will turn on sad music with relatable lyrics. Occasionally, I will even eat peanut butter or ice cream (I know-- very cliché) and go through sentimental old photos. It may not be healthy, but oh man it is so satisfying to devour something yummy after a crappy day!
Elevating your mood after it crashes can be difficult. It really depends on the person. What works for me is to focus on something enjoyable, like reading a good book, watching Netflix, or doing my homework (not enjoyable, but distracting nonetheless). It's amazing how well distracting yourself can be. Due to tiny miracle workers in your body called endorphins, exercising also boosts your mood. Running purges all my negative energy. The harder and faster I run, the better I feel-- as long as I remember to stretch afterwards! When I need cheering up, I also like to write. I keep a journal that I write in occasionally. It's filled with a plethora of things: from to-do lists to emotional rants. If you need to let something off your chest, than this is very therapeutic and I highly recommend it. The final and most important thing to do when you want to alleviate the loneliness is.... PUT DOWN YOUR PHONE AND GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA!!!!!! Social media will only make you feel worse. Do yourself a favor and take a break from the negative energy.
Loneliness is like a math problem: discouraging, but solvable! Good luck, feel better, and treat yourself. You deserve it! :)
Kisses,
Isabelle :)
When you feel alone, it's common to want to do one of two things: wallow in your self-deprecating thoughts, or make yourself feel better. Remember: it is okay to cry and sometimes it will make you feel better. :)
When I wallow, I like to do it comfortably. I change into the fluffiest pair of socks I own and put on my favorite pair of pajamas. Then, I either wrap myself in a blanket burrito style or I turn on my bed heater and lay under the covers. I will just lay there and let my mind wander for a while. I think about everything. I remember someone I miss, imagine what-ifs, and wish I was out doing something productive. If that doesn't work, I will turn on sad music with relatable lyrics. Occasionally, I will even eat peanut butter or ice cream (I know-- very cliché) and go through sentimental old photos. It may not be healthy, but oh man it is so satisfying to devour something yummy after a crappy day!
Elevating your mood after it crashes can be difficult. It really depends on the person. What works for me is to focus on something enjoyable, like reading a good book, watching Netflix, or doing my homework (not enjoyable, but distracting nonetheless). It's amazing how well distracting yourself can be. Due to tiny miracle workers in your body called endorphins, exercising also boosts your mood. Running purges all my negative energy. The harder and faster I run, the better I feel-- as long as I remember to stretch afterwards! When I need cheering up, I also like to write. I keep a journal that I write in occasionally. It's filled with a plethora of things: from to-do lists to emotional rants. If you need to let something off your chest, than this is very therapeutic and I highly recommend it. The final and most important thing to do when you want to alleviate the loneliness is.... PUT DOWN YOUR PHONE AND GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA!!!!!! Social media will only make you feel worse. Do yourself a favor and take a break from the negative energy.
Loneliness is like a math problem: discouraging, but solvable! Good luck, feel better, and treat yourself. You deserve it! :)
Kisses,
Isabelle :)
Saturday, March 26, 2016
Memorization Hacks
One of the things that students always face at least once in school is having to memorize something. Many english classes require the memorization of vocabulary words. If your class is anything like mine, then you also have to remember it until the very end of the course or semester. Depending on the school, you'd have to remember those same words plus more for 18-36 weeks. That's a long time!
Luckily for you, I have compiled list of memorization tips and tricks!
1. Repetition. Repeat all the words until you know them all. This is probably the least effective for the long-term.
2. Retrieval. Create a list on Quizlet and hit "Test", or create one of your own. This helps you remember the information. It is also a proved method to help memory! It is called the testing effect!
3. Flashcards. This method never fails for me!
4. When presented a list of terms, try and connect them all in some way. A venn diagram, flow chart, cause and effect diagram, and even a web diagram work for me. This is especially good with connecting concepts, like in a history class.
5. Create a mental image of each word and then create a story out of it! I actually found this one on YouTube. To watch, click here. I thought this was really cool!
These are just a few of the methods I use when I'm handed a list of terms to know. I get all A's, so they must be at least slightly effective! :P xD
I hope you guys have a fantastic week! Good luck and I hope this helps!
Kisses,
Isabelle!
Luckily for you, I have compiled list of memorization tips and tricks!
1. Repetition. Repeat all the words until you know them all. This is probably the least effective for the long-term.
2. Retrieval. Create a list on Quizlet and hit "Test", or create one of your own. This helps you remember the information. It is also a proved method to help memory! It is called the testing effect!
3. Flashcards. This method never fails for me!
4. When presented a list of terms, try and connect them all in some way. A venn diagram, flow chart, cause and effect diagram, and even a web diagram work for me. This is especially good with connecting concepts, like in a history class.
5. Create a mental image of each word and then create a story out of it! I actually found this one on YouTube. To watch, click here. I thought this was really cool!
These are just a few of the methods I use when I'm handed a list of terms to know. I get all A's, so they must be at least slightly effective! :P xD
I hope you guys have a fantastic week! Good luck and I hope this helps!
Kisses,
Isabelle!
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
After High School
College. Very scary. Very intimidating. There are so many different choices perfect for any criteria. Want a nursing school? There is one. A college specific to aerospace engineering? There is one for that too. For goodness sakes, there is even one for if you want to be a character in Disney World! There is a college out there for everyone. So why is it so hard to chose one? Heck, I can't even chose four or five to seriously consider! I thought I knew, but I didn't.
And when did my options start to dwindle down? When I was kid, my parents and my teachers constantly told me that I could do anything I wanted, go anywhere I wanted when I grow up. When did that start changing? Why, when I say that I want to be a music major, do people all attack me with phrases like, "You'll never be successful" "You'll never have a high paycheck" "You'll have no job security." Yes, I have considered it! I'm not going to change my mind. I love what I do and I want to do it for the rest of my life. I'm so tired of people criticizing my passions by telling me to grow up and choose something more practical. It's my life, not yours and gosh darn it, I am going to enjoy it.
When did the idea of going anywhere for college dissipate? All of a sudden, people are trying to encourage me to stay in state. In fact, my parents are practically making me. What if I don't want to go to an instate college? Money can be issue, I get that. But, I have a high enough ACT score to get decent scholarships and plenty of opportunities to raise that score. I'm also applying for several separate scholarships in addition to that. Plus, I'm already planning on getting a job! Money is not an issue. Another reason they want me to stay in state is because of travel time. They don't want to travel long hours to watch my marching band performances or concerts or anything else. They also want me to be able to visit them. They'll miss me. I understand that. I really do. In fact, I'd love for them to watch me, but I also want to go to the best undergrad school I can for music. That school is not instate. Music is a very competitive field, with lots of people vying for minimum spots. I need that leg up for graduate school. My parents also say that some schools I am considering aren't good enough for me. "Their accepting ACT score is way too low" "People only go there when they can't go anywhere else." Yes, I completely understand that. They want me to be successful and challenged. Very plausible. But if it's a good school for music, why shouldn't I at least consider it?
My parents have good intentions. They just want what's best for me. They want me to go to college cheap for my bachelor's to save all my money for graduate school. They want to see my band performances and support me. They want me to succeed and go to a good instate school that will challenge me! I appreciate all their time and research and help and advice. I just don't want my options limited. I want to be free to go wherever I want that is good for music and that I can get money for. I want the freedom to be an adult and make adult decisions for MY future and MY success. I don't want someone else to make those decisions for me.
And when did my options start to dwindle down? When I was kid, my parents and my teachers constantly told me that I could do anything I wanted, go anywhere I wanted when I grow up. When did that start changing? Why, when I say that I want to be a music major, do people all attack me with phrases like, "You'll never be successful" "You'll never have a high paycheck" "You'll have no job security." Yes, I have considered it! I'm not going to change my mind. I love what I do and I want to do it for the rest of my life. I'm so tired of people criticizing my passions by telling me to grow up and choose something more practical. It's my life, not yours and gosh darn it, I am going to enjoy it.
When did the idea of going anywhere for college dissipate? All of a sudden, people are trying to encourage me to stay in state. In fact, my parents are practically making me. What if I don't want to go to an instate college? Money can be issue, I get that. But, I have a high enough ACT score to get decent scholarships and plenty of opportunities to raise that score. I'm also applying for several separate scholarships in addition to that. Plus, I'm already planning on getting a job! Money is not an issue. Another reason they want me to stay in state is because of travel time. They don't want to travel long hours to watch my marching band performances or concerts or anything else. They also want me to be able to visit them. They'll miss me. I understand that. I really do. In fact, I'd love for them to watch me, but I also want to go to the best undergrad school I can for music. That school is not instate. Music is a very competitive field, with lots of people vying for minimum spots. I need that leg up for graduate school. My parents also say that some schools I am considering aren't good enough for me. "Their accepting ACT score is way too low" "People only go there when they can't go anywhere else." Yes, I completely understand that. They want me to be successful and challenged. Very plausible. But if it's a good school for music, why shouldn't I at least consider it?
My parents have good intentions. They just want what's best for me. They want me to go to college cheap for my bachelor's to save all my money for graduate school. They want to see my band performances and support me. They want me to succeed and go to a good instate school that will challenge me! I appreciate all their time and research and help and advice. I just don't want my options limited. I want to be free to go wherever I want that is good for music and that I can get money for. I want the freedom to be an adult and make adult decisions for MY future and MY success. I don't want someone else to make those decisions for me.
Tuesday, March 22, 2016
Check Out My Bucket List!
Hey guys! I just posted my personal bucket list. It should help you get to know me a little better. You guys should check it out! Let me know what's on your bucket list!
Sorry for the short post! Have a nice day!
Kisses,
Isabelle :]
Sorry for the short post! Have a nice day!
Kisses,
Isabelle :]
Sunday, March 20, 2016
10 Best Starbucks Drinks!
As most typical white girls do, I love Starbucks coffee! I could drink one every day! Here are my top ten all time favorites:
1. Peppermint Mocha Frappachino
This is my overall favorite! I love the crisp taste of the peppermint. Add the chocolate flavor and it's music to my taste buds! Unfortunately, it is a seasonal drink. It is only available around the holiday season, so snatch it up when it's available!
2. Molten Chocolate Frappachino
This comes in second. It is so chocolate-y! It's perfect for chocolate lovers like me! It's very rich, however, so I would recommend a Grande max. This chocolate heaven is topped off with chocolate whipped cream and a spectacular chocolate drizzle. Again, this is a seasonal drink available around Valentine's Day. Don't miss out next year!
3. Java Chip Frappachino
Rolling in third, is the Java Chip Frappachino. Lucky for us, it is available year round! I get this one every year for my birthday. It has a strong coffee flavor, augmented by chocolate drizzle, whipped cream, and chocolate chips! Mmmmm, delicious!
4. S'mores Frappachino
Coming in fourth, this delectable drink is only found on the Starbucks Secret Menu. This drink is packed with coffee and chocolate with a pump of hazelnut syrup. Sprinkled on top of the whipped cream is chocolate drizzle and crushed graham cracker. Perfect for the upcoming summer season!
5. Pumpkin Spice Frappachino
This fall favorite comes in fifth. It is a pumpkin flavored seasonal drink, available around fall. I'm not sure what is in this one: maybe a little magic! Don't forget to pick this one up come September!
6. Cherry Blossom Frappachino
The springtime drink comes to us all the way from Japan! This drink has no coffee in it and it originates from the Strawberries and Creme Frappachino. It has a special syrup in it to add the taste of Japan. But don't delay; today is the last day it is being sold!
7. Cinnamon Dolce Frappachino
This drink can be ordered with or without coffee with minimal effect on the taste! This is available year round. It is topped with whipped cream, cinnamon sprinkles, and a dash of vanilla flavored powder.
8. Gingerbread Frappachino
This drink tastes like gingerbread cookies fresh out of the oven! The rich, warming flavor is enough to make anyone smile. Also recommended is the Gingerbread Latte. This is a seasonal drink sold during the holiday season.
9. Creme Brûlée Frappachino
This dessert flavored drink is a seasonal drink available during the holidays. It's authentic taste is accented by a topping of whipped cream, caramel drizzle, and toffee chunks on top. Yes please!
10. Eggnog Frappachino
This festive drink is available during the holiday season. The Eggnog Frappachino is modeled after the traditional holiday drink; it tastes just like it! This is definitely a winter must-have!
These are my favorite Starbucks drinks! While I listed the Frappachino version (my personal preference), most, if not all, of the drinks can be sold as a latte, mocha, etc. Drink on!
Kisses,
Isabelle 😊
1. Peppermint Mocha Frappachino
This is my overall favorite! I love the crisp taste of the peppermint. Add the chocolate flavor and it's music to my taste buds! Unfortunately, it is a seasonal drink. It is only available around the holiday season, so snatch it up when it's available!
2. Molten Chocolate Frappachino
This comes in second. It is so chocolate-y! It's perfect for chocolate lovers like me! It's very rich, however, so I would recommend a Grande max. This chocolate heaven is topped off with chocolate whipped cream and a spectacular chocolate drizzle. Again, this is a seasonal drink available around Valentine's Day. Don't miss out next year!
3. Java Chip Frappachino
Rolling in third, is the Java Chip Frappachino. Lucky for us, it is available year round! I get this one every year for my birthday. It has a strong coffee flavor, augmented by chocolate drizzle, whipped cream, and chocolate chips! Mmmmm, delicious!
4. S'mores Frappachino
Coming in fourth, this delectable drink is only found on the Starbucks Secret Menu. This drink is packed with coffee and chocolate with a pump of hazelnut syrup. Sprinkled on top of the whipped cream is chocolate drizzle and crushed graham cracker. Perfect for the upcoming summer season!
5. Pumpkin Spice Frappachino
This fall favorite comes in fifth. It is a pumpkin flavored seasonal drink, available around fall. I'm not sure what is in this one: maybe a little magic! Don't forget to pick this one up come September!
6. Cherry Blossom Frappachino
The springtime drink comes to us all the way from Japan! This drink has no coffee in it and it originates from the Strawberries and Creme Frappachino. It has a special syrup in it to add the taste of Japan. But don't delay; today is the last day it is being sold!
7. Cinnamon Dolce Frappachino
This drink can be ordered with or without coffee with minimal effect on the taste! This is available year round. It is topped with whipped cream, cinnamon sprinkles, and a dash of vanilla flavored powder.
8. Gingerbread Frappachino
This drink tastes like gingerbread cookies fresh out of the oven! The rich, warming flavor is enough to make anyone smile. Also recommended is the Gingerbread Latte. This is a seasonal drink sold during the holiday season.
9. Creme Brûlée Frappachino
This dessert flavored drink is a seasonal drink available during the holidays. It's authentic taste is accented by a topping of whipped cream, caramel drizzle, and toffee chunks on top. Yes please!
10. Eggnog Frappachino
This festive drink is available during the holiday season. The Eggnog Frappachino is modeled after the traditional holiday drink; it tastes just like it! This is definitely a winter must-have!
These are my favorite Starbucks drinks! While I listed the Frappachino version (my personal preference), most, if not all, of the drinks can be sold as a latte, mocha, etc. Drink on!
Kisses,
Isabelle 😊
Saturday, March 19, 2016
Lessons Learned From Music: Patience
Music is not just a form of mental stimulation. It is not just a hobby or for pleasure. Music is a lifestyle and there are many important lessons to learn from it.
One of the most important things I've learned from my journey with music, is how to be patient. Patience, in my opinion, is one of the most essential things to have if you want to be successful in life. Without patience, you get nowhere. Music teaches patience through practicing. As any musician knows, the first time through something is not perfect. Not even close. In order to master the peice, practice is required. The progress can be slow and grueling, but advancements in performance quality are gradually made. Patience is required to stick with an instrument, especially while just learning.
The patience learned from music can also be applied in other areas of life.
Patience helps financial situations. Financial stability is not a guarantee and is very unstable. It also takes time to get there, especially if coming out of debt. The good news is that having patience allows delayed gratification. I define delayed gratification as waiting until there is room in the budget for something before purchasing it (as opposed to putting it on a credit card).
Patience can also improve relationships with others. Humans are unpredictable. Our actions and emotions affect those around us. To effectively deal with others, it requires patience. So much of our time is spent with family, spouses, friends, and significant others. A lot of time spent with the same group of people can get exhausting. For example, when I've been around my family for a lot of time, I get short with them and easily frustrated. Being patient with family, even when it's hard, has high yields and can lower the frequency of quarrels.
There are many more instances where patience is ideal. Overall, patience is a necessary and useful skill that can open up the path to success! Patience transcends all areas of life and is required for developing musical talent. Music teaches patience, and in return patience allows musicality and technical skills to burgeon into something magical.
Thank you music for teaching me such a wonderful skill!
Kisses,
Isabelle! ❤️
One of the most important things I've learned from my journey with music, is how to be patient. Patience, in my opinion, is one of the most essential things to have if you want to be successful in life. Without patience, you get nowhere. Music teaches patience through practicing. As any musician knows, the first time through something is not perfect. Not even close. In order to master the peice, practice is required. The progress can be slow and grueling, but advancements in performance quality are gradually made. Patience is required to stick with an instrument, especially while just learning.
The patience learned from music can also be applied in other areas of life.
Patience helps financial situations. Financial stability is not a guarantee and is very unstable. It also takes time to get there, especially if coming out of debt. The good news is that having patience allows delayed gratification. I define delayed gratification as waiting until there is room in the budget for something before purchasing it (as opposed to putting it on a credit card).
Patience can also improve relationships with others. Humans are unpredictable. Our actions and emotions affect those around us. To effectively deal with others, it requires patience. So much of our time is spent with family, spouses, friends, and significant others. A lot of time spent with the same group of people can get exhausting. For example, when I've been around my family for a lot of time, I get short with them and easily frustrated. Being patient with family, even when it's hard, has high yields and can lower the frequency of quarrels.
There are many more instances where patience is ideal. Overall, patience is a necessary and useful skill that can open up the path to success! Patience transcends all areas of life and is required for developing musical talent. Music teaches patience, and in return patience allows musicality and technical skills to burgeon into something magical.
Thank you music for teaching me such a wonderful skill!
Kisses,
Isabelle! ❤️
Friday, March 18, 2016
City versus Beach
This year for Spring Break, my family went to a beach town on the Florida coast. It was superrr relaxing! I've never been less stressed in my life! However, in the past I disliked the south. I always complained about the constant heat, sunburns, and humidity. I used to loathe the beach even more. The salt water burns your eyes and the sand! The sand gets EVERYWHERE. It would take me days to get it all out of my hair. I used to hate that so much.
Recently though, I've been out enjoying the sunshine. I even went to the beach and I loved it. *gasp* I don't think I have ever spent that much time in the sun (for fun) ever.
This trip really got me thinking: what if I go to a college by the beach? Then I'd never have to leave. I've always considered myself a big city girl, but man I love the beach!
Here is what I love about cities:
Big cities and beaches: two completely different things and polar opposites of each other. Yet, both fill my heart with joy. Which one is better? I'm gonna have to call it a draw. Feel free to weigh in on the poll found at the bottom! Active until 3/25/16
Kisses,
Isabelle
Recently though, I've been out enjoying the sunshine. I even went to the beach and I loved it. *gasp* I don't think I have ever spent that much time in the sun (for fun) ever.
This trip really got me thinking: what if I go to a college by the beach? Then I'd never have to leave. I've always considered myself a big city girl, but man I love the beach!
Here is what I love about cities:
- The busyness is the best!
- The metro/subway
- Everything is close by
- Encourages exercising via bike or walking
- So many opportunities
- Air pollution
- Noisy
- High crime rates
- Can't see the stars at night
- Can become dull
- Hectic at times
- So peaceful and serene
- Getting tan
- The feeling of the sun hitting your skin
- How refreshing it is to get in the water after a hot day
- The smell of fresh air
- The sound of the ocean and birds
- Sea shells!
- Excuse to eat ice cream!
- Sand Sand Sand everywhere!
- Sunburns
- Sunscreen
- Sweating from the heat
- Humidity
- Tropical storms
- Once you get used to it, it isn't as special anymore.
Big cities and beaches: two completely different things and polar opposites of each other. Yet, both fill my heart with joy. Which one is better? I'm gonna have to call it a draw. Feel free to weigh in on the poll found at the bottom! Active until 3/25/16
Kisses,
Isabelle
A Brief Hello
Obviously, I'm new here, so hello! *awkward wave*
My name is Isabelle. To read more about me, please click on the "About" tab.
I have been wanting to start a blog for a while now. I'm glad I finally have the opportunity! Since I am in high school, I am extremely busy and it's hard to find the time.
Anyways, thanks for visiting! The real first post coming soon!
Kisses!
Isabelle :)
My name is Isabelle. To read more about me, please click on the "About" tab.
I have been wanting to start a blog for a while now. I'm glad I finally have the opportunity! Since I am in high school, I am extremely busy and it's hard to find the time.
Anyways, thanks for visiting! The real first post coming soon!
Kisses!
Isabelle :)
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